A new strategy for the hardest system at home
Stop Fighting The Symptoms. Start Slaying The Dragons.
Mantin Lu is a former gaming executive and the father of an autistic son. He gives parents a practical map for turning daily chaos at home into calm leadership.
For the parent with a struggling child with or without a label.
Raise Your Dragon Slayer Published April 2026
Number One Bestselling Author | As stated by Mantin
2026 Speaker Of The Year | As stated by Mantin
2x TEDx Speaker
Twenty Years As A Gaming Executive
Cover Feature In WeChinese In America
Change the game and not the child.
“You are not a bad parent. You are just playing with a broken controller.”
The pattern at home
Which home are you living in?
The surface problem changes. The feeling underneath can be painfully familiar.
Battleground
Every request turns into a war.
Courtroom
You are constantly interrogating your child about missing homework.
Carnival
Loud and fun but completely out of control.
Your child is not lazy or defiant or broken. They are stuck in a game they do not know how to win and they are fighting invisible enemies. Mantin calls them the Dragons of Executive Dysfunction. They steal focus and memory and emotional control.
From Mantin's own posts
The SLAY Framework
A four step map shaped by a father's lived experience and twenty years of systems thinking.
Spot the Dragon
Stop fighting the symptoms and name the root cause.
Level Up Your Gears
You cannot fight a level 50 boss with level 1 armor so upgrade your strategy.
Assemble Your Team
You cannot solo a raid boss so build your circle of trust.
Yearn for Victory
Find the purpose that makes surrender impossible.
A different move
Change the game and not the child.
“Stop trying to fix the person and start changing the game.”
Mantin Lu
“Procrastination is almost never a discipline problem. It is a structure and emotional regulation problem.”
Mantin Lu
Stop Fixing the Person. Start Changing the GameLink awaiting Mantin confirmationLinkedIn article link awaiting Mantin confirmation.
Ticker News interviewLink awaiting Mantin confirmationMantin discussed the Dragon Matrix and the SLAY framework. Link awaiting confirmation.
A father's story
He was fighting the wrong enemy.
For years Mantin tried to escape the reality of his son's autism diagnosis by burying himself in his executive career. The diagnosis crushed his ego and forced him to stop running and start leading.
The Slayer's Road Map
The journey from the darkness of unknowing to the strength of being unified as a family.
The move from a parent who manages a crisis to a parent who coaches a future leader.
His story appears in a 16 page cover feature in the May issue of WeChinese in America. Feature link awaiting Mantin confirmation.
Raise Your Dragon Slayer
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The book
Raise Your Dragon Slayer
Equip Your Child to SLAY the Dragons of Executive Dysfunction and Reclaim Your Family's Joy
Success Spectrum Strategies, April 2 2026.
This book is for the parent with a struggling child with or without a label.
Stop fighting the symptoms. Start slaying the dragons.
It combines the psychology of gamification with the neuroscience of connection to give parents a practical manual.
It is time to put down the weapons and pick up the map.
Retail link awaiting Mantin confirmation.
A practical next step
Free 5 Day Parent Rescue Coaching.
Mantin offers free 1 on 1 5 Day Neurodivergent Parent Rescue Coaching through an application. He also coaches parents of neurodivergent children with his SHINE Parenting Blueprint to help them move from surviving to thriving.
Application link awaiting Mantin confirmation.
LinkedIn message link awaiting Mantin confirmation.
For corporate leaders
Build unbreakable resilience.
Bring the SLAY framework to your organization to help your people build unbreakable resilience. Mantin's keynotes equip organizations to lead through chaos and conquer complex systems using the SLAY framework.
Recognition
A movement in motion.
As stated by Mantin
2026 Speaker of the Year in Melbourne Australia.
As stated by Mantin
Cover feature of the May issue of WeChinese in America with 16 pages on SLAY to LEAD.
As stated by Mantin
Two time TEDx speaker. Talk names pending.
As stated by Mantin
Interview with Ticker News.
Mantin states a mission to reach 20000 people this year.
Parent voices
What listeners carried home.
2025 recommendation | Permission pending
“What an incredibly heartfelt narration.”
Asha Puthran
Technical Business Analyst | February 28 2025
2025 recommendation | Permission pending
“I would absolutely trust him to coach me.”
Samantha Wittenberg
Health and Wellbeing Speaker and Coach for Caregivers of Neurodivergent Children | February 28 2025
Both quotes come from LinkedIn recommendations written by people who heard Mantin speak.
Questions
Start with what is known.
What is the SLAY framework?
It is Mantin's four step map: Spot the Dragon and Level Up Your Gears and Assemble Your Team and Yearn for Victory.
What is the free 5 Day Parent Rescue Coaching?
It is free 1 on 1 coaching for parents of neurodivergent children offered through an application. Ask Mantin for the exact five day outline.
How do I ask Mantin to speak?
Choose Keynote in the contact form and share what your group needs. For fees and availability ask Mantin.
Contact
Ask Mantin.
For fees and availability ask Mantin.
hello@mantinlu.com | Placeholder email awaiting confirmation.
Calendar link awaiting replacement.
Don't just survive. SLAY the Dragon. LEAD your Life.